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Get Involved to Prevent Suicide

Opportunities abound to learn more about suicide prevention and take action.

Connecticut lost 371 people to suicide in 2011 – a 20 year high.[1] Researchers identify many underlying reasons that lead some to want to end their lives: Intense emotional distress, depression, hopelessness, anger, impulsiveness, psychosis[2]. The list goes on. Remorse, and even feeling the need to be perfect, are identified. The issues are complex and multifaceted.

Suicide is the fourth leading cause of death among American adults 18-65 and the second leading cause of death among teenagers. It is also the second leading cause of death in the US military - 38 members of the Army killed themselves in July 2012 – that is a record[3]. Our senior population is not immune to this crisis either. Last year, fifty-five of the people who committed suicide in Connecticut were 65 or older.

How can we, as a community, help prevent someone’s desire to end their own life? To start, we must change the way we think of mental illness. A major factor contributing to the number of people who try to take their own life is stigma. Merriam-Webster defines stigma as “a mark of shame or discredit.” This negative feeling imposed by others that people with a psychiatric illness experience is real. Often driven by fear, people may shun or isolate those who they think are having emotional difficulties. This is the exact opposite of what is needed.

Suicide prevention efforts entail increasing social support networks and securing early psychiatric treatment.[4] According to a preliminary report that looked at the views of those who attempted suicide, stigma had a negative influence.[5] When society stigmatizes those who have a mental illness, then people struggling are less likely to seek professional help or support from their family and friends.

The next couple of weeks present opportunities for all of us to get involved.

Walkathon:
Join a walkathon to prevent suicide on October 27 and November 3. Make an on-line donation, sponsor a walker, or walk yourself and make a difference. Let’s start with the basics – putting one’s self out there, walking with others for the same cause makes a statement. It says, “I care!” Your caring may be for a friend or a family member, or a stranger. It is pretty good for your own psyche too! A little fresh air and exercise does everyone some good.

These walks, sponsored by Out of the Darkness Community Walks, will raise money for the benefit of the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention (AFSP). AFSP funds educational programs supporting prevention, warning-sign awareness, and education about psychiatric illnesses that can lead to suicide. They also fund research to help understand suicide and how to prevent it.


Theatre production:
Also taking place this weekend is a special fundraiser by two local affiliates of the National Alliance for Mental Illness (NAMI) Connecticut: NAMI Stamford/Greenwich and NAMI Fairfield chapters: The Pulitzer prize winning musical Next to Normal will be performed on Saturday afternoon at 4:00 at the Music Theatre of Connecticut. Tickets must be purchased on-line at www.namict.org, and there will be a post-show reception with the cast. A flyer with additional information is attached to this article.

Guest Speaker:
On Wednesday, November 7, NAMI Fairfield will hold its Annual Meeting featuring speaker David Kelly, LCSW. David will be giving a talk on self-injurious behavior entitled, "The World is a Sharp Object." He will outline the causes of self-injury and discuss how technology, such as the Internet, has influenced self-injurious behavior. He’ll also discuss self-injury in practical terms, with a focus on helping concerned parents and family members better spot these problem behaviors early and intervene appropriately. The meeting will be held in the Eliot Room Library, First Church Congregational, 148 Beach Road, Fairfield from 7:30-9:00. More information can be found here.

[1] Office of the Chief Medical Examiner, downloaded 10/14/12, http://www.ct.gov/ocme/cwp/view.asp?a=2165&q=295126.

[2] Boergers, J., Spirito, A., and Donaldson, D. 1998. Reasons for Adolescent Suicide Attempts: Associations With Psychological Functioning. Journal of the American Academy of Child & Adolescent Psychiatry, 37;12: 1287–1293

[3] US Department of Defense, Office of the Assistant Secretary of Defense, http://www.defense.gov/Releases/Release.aspx?ReleaseID=15517, August 16, 2012.

[4] Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, 2012 Understanding Suicide Fact Sheet. http://www.cdc.gov/ViolencePrevention/pdf/Suicide_FactSheet_2012-a.pdf.

[5] Eagles, J. M., Carson, D. P., Begg, A., et al, 2003. Suicide prevention: a study of patients' views. British Journal of Psychiatry, 182, 261–265.

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q May 21, 2013 at 01:25 pm
"Minimal impact" means some. Retiring debts over the next few years is a good thing andRead More doesn't mean you should borrow more. Perhaps when those debts are paid off there will be a little more money available to meet the basic needs of the schools and the town departments. As wonderful as the expansion sounds, it is not an immediate need - it is a "want". We know the potential benefits of the expansion. Please give specifics as to the cost per taxpayer per year and for how long to pay off this specific project. Thank you.
Betty-Lou Griffin May 21, 2013 at 11:48 am
The "complete reworking of the library" only included HVAC renovations being done on theRead More whole building, repair of the leaking roof and skylight that was ruining the library, and replacement of the circulation desk. No space was added. I am glad to hear that you recognize the benefits of expanded library space. Town Manager Steven Werbner has indicated that Tolland will be retiring several debts over the next several years, and this expansion would therefore have minimal impact on Tolland's debt burden or tax level. If we wait, multiple existing grant opportunities may disappear. Let's NOT wait another decade to address this problem. Let's at least send it to public hearing and referendum so that we can have a sincere and wide-reaching community discussion on this important issue, and allow our citizens the OPPORTUNITY TO VOTE.
q May 21, 2013 at 09:33 am
Love the idea of an expanded library space, but is the time really now? We couldn't even afford toRead More fully fund our school and town budgets for next year. We will be experiencing a lower quality of education and reduced town services and until we can bring that back up to par we should not be taking on new debt. Just a quick look at next year's budget shows we are still paying on the new High School, the Geothermal project, bonding for roads improvement, sewers, open space bonds, Cross Farms development, the new Library roof, and now the artificial turf/lights project at THS. Even if some grants are available to help with the cost, the Library Expansion Project will add more debt for the town (taxpayers). Is this really the time to do that?
q May 21, 2013 at 10:10 am
Love the idea of an expanded library, but we saw with this latest school/town budget that this townRead More cannot afford to maintain the level of education and town services we now have. How much will this library extension cost per year per taxpayer? Perhaps we should pay off some of our existing debt (including all the new debt incurred in just the past 3 years) before taking on new. Also, you mention the need for quiet tutoring rooms. Are these paid tutors you're referring to? If so, will they be charged rental fees for using the spaces paid for by the taxpayers? Aren't there spaces available at the new Rec Center at Parker? How about space at the schools? With fewer teachers and fewer students there are now empty classrooms.